Escort BDSM Rules: The Right Side of Dark Pleasure!

For many clients, BDSM play counts as one of their favourite escort services to use. Rightfully so, when done right, BDSM sex can have a great impact on the quality of your sex life and your willingness to step outside your comfort zone.

However, in the world of BDSM, there are strict rules as to what counts as pleasurable play and what entails crossing the line. If you are unsure how to approach your first BDSM escort date, here are the dos and don’ts to guarantee you a safe, sexy and sultry experience.

BDSM Escort Date: The Dos! 

  • Visit your chosen escort’s online portfolio to ensure she is offering BDSM as a service. In doing so, please only choose escorts that are comfortable with BDSM play and have listed the service in their profile.
  • Ensure you have a private and discreet setting, such as your home or a 5-start hotel room.
  • Whatever form of BDSM you have in mind, always make sure you have enthusiastic consent from your date.
  • Always pay for the service ahead of time and tip at the end of your date.
  • Let your escort know your idea for your arrangement and steer clear of the ‘surprise’ factor. 
  • If using toys, let your escort know your preferences ahead of time.
  • Always, always use protection during sex.
  • Stay disciplined throughout the experience. Even though an escort is submissive, she will still have rules and boundaries you have to respect.
  • Only ask for things your escort has already agreed to. Trying to persuade your date into doing something she is not comfortable with will just spoil the fun of your date.
  • If unsure of your next move, always consult your escort for further instructions and guidance.
  • During your session, come up with a safe word, and if used, respect it.

BDSM Escort Date: The Don’ts!

  • Refrain from drinking too much or taking drugs before your session. The only way BDSM works is with a clear head on your shoulders.
  • Stay in control. If you feel like you are letting yourself go, do a little break to regain your composure.
  • Steer clear of unsafe or illegal actions. That said, consult your escort occasionally to ensure all is good on her end, too. 
  • Don’t put pressure on your escort to perform acts she is not comfortable with. If you are unsure whether something is okay to do, simply ask your date’s opinion.

Source: https://www.uknationalescortsassociation.co.uk/articles/submissive_escorts_dos_and_donts_189.html